Husband Wants Sex, Wife Doesn’t

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I can say that it gets pretty uncomfortable at the end of pregnancy, apart from how absolutely exhausted she must be feeling chasing a toddler and now caring for a newborn as well. What if my wife died and I never got married? The important thing is that you are together, as a man and wife.

She has had many medical issues. Your 'me time' becomes showering and going to the toilet with the door closed if you're lucky! This woman sounds abusive and is going to use you until you give up.

What NOT To Do If Your Wife Won't Have Sex With You

The day when I could finally know my husband on a sexual level. But now the honeymoon is over and real life has begun. Oh how I longed to be with him. And the idea of not desiring to be intimate with my husband was never a thought that crossed my mind. But after 14 years of marriage, that newness that was once there has diminished, and life has crept into our relationship. So this got me to thinking about wives in general. You see, I personally do not believe that any new bride had intentions of avoiding or depriving her man of sex when she said yes to his marriage proposal. But something has happened in their marriage. There is a break down of some sort that is causing her to turn away from being intimate with him. So, on this list are areas that we have control over and others areas, well… not so much. Outside of the man taking a shower and brushing his teeth, there are no quick fixes to the other issues. However, as time goes on, I will cover them. So, if you can relate to some of these issues, make sure you sign up to receive my future posts. Sex is not on her to-do list, and her list is already long enough as it is. Her children sleep in her bed. Keeping peace with the kids is more important than having sex with her husband. Who wants to deal with another temper-tantrum, right. She needs her space so she can breathe. For some, you entered into the world of motherhood rather quickly. For other wives, you might be focusing on a career or perhaps raising teenagers, handling a blended family, aging parents, etc. Perhaps you feel more like the cook, maid, taxi driver, etc. If you have body image issues this is something you can work on yourself. Andyou need to be in constant prayer and communion with the Lord. I lived with 10 years of chronic fatigue. If this way of life describes you, then plan for naps and simplify your schedule. Yep, been here as well, my friend. Of course I can relate to this one as well being that I had rupturing ovarian cysts for over 5 years. Ya know, those things have a tendency to be related to imbalanced hormones. I say somewhat restored because sometimes fixing our bodies is just not a reality. However, avoiding sex altogether is not a solution to your problems either. So you might need to get sexually creative on this one. I know there are many things on this list that are so difficult to overcome, but with a willing heart, a teachable spirit, and a desire to please the Lord, you can, with Christ, overcome many of these obstacles. One of the things that sex is designed for is to bring you and your man closer together. Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. The topic of this post has caused this article to become my number one post searched on Google. I know all husbands want to connect with their wives, and I can only imagine that you are hurting in your marriage. But, wife never wants sex this ministry, I write to women, not men. We created the site just for you. Live a poured out life for Christ, Jolene Wife never wants sex Announcing the 2018 Homemaking Ministries Online Conference. Tickets are officially on sale for our 5th annual conference - the Deep Dive Summit. The conference this year is going to be incredible with 8 deep dive mentors and 14 breakout speakers. This year I'll be your Deep Dive Marriage Mentor. I do as much if not more around the house and am a great father. I could go on, but I have to sleep so I can plow snow all day tomorrow. I found out that my wife was hiding things from me: 1- A face book account that was supposed to be used with family members only turned wife never wants sex to be a communication tools to talk to her exhusband husband that she left for me. She did not have any kids or home as it was a long distance relationship when the agreement was no other people but family could be on her account. Now, it had being 4 weeks since she has being avoiding me to have sex and now we are in a divorce process due to all the crap she was hiding from me with all kinds of excuses. Sadly we have a 12, 6 years old and she is 30 weeks pregnat which due to all the crap we have being going through and all the lies I am suspecting the baby might not even be mine because it consides with the time she was on jury duty. Man, this cituacion truly sucks and the trust and respect is not longer there. I was sooo exhausted that at times I would accidentally fall asleep during the act and still he refused to understand. He would either get upset, sulk or pick a fight when I was tired. What really broke my heart was that he continued watching porn even though we were doing it almost every day, and showed no remorse for his actions even after knowing how much it hurt me. He even had the nerve to get upset when I kept telling him that I was in pain. I was torn and emotionally broken by then. Physical scars may heal but emotional scars lasts forever and women are emotional creatures by nature. Well, you work, you parent, you clean up after yourself, and you have basic hygiene. Society owes you a sexual servant and your wife is the woman selected to take on that servitude. Your wife is completely absent from your life, the marriage, and any consideration in hour sex life. She should settle for a life time of obligation pity sex. My husband could have written you post. He too does hard manual labor, but in triple digit heat because we live in farm country in California. Wife never wants sex also only watches the kids at whim and refuses to commit to watching them on a certain date or time when he is off. Wife never wants sex he helps with the house its with the constant reminder there is not woman in the house. Substitute doing landing scaping in the heat for plowing snow, and my husband could have written your post word for word. Sometimes divorce or sepetation and individual counseling for both people, maybe leading up to marriage counseling once the control issues are gone is a better response from a wife than expecting her to have sex because a man works and brushes his teeth. I believe some times a persons heart can become so hardened that even the Lord Jesus Christ can not reach them. I used to be a believer, not sure any more. I married a non believer because she was nicer than any christian I ever met. I have the god given right to tell her that she has a sexy ass, or boobs. I believe there is a lot of value in having a healthy sex life as a married couple. I am not Dr Phil and I can not fix her or make her desire me. Everytime I tried to leave he would tell me he would kill me and no one would find me. Brenda, My heart grieves for what you have lived through. As Believers, we have not been given a spirit of fear but of sound mind. You are also permitted to divorce your husband since he has been unfaithful. I have been very patient and loving towards her to show her i love her and to be understanding. Her lack of intimate time makes me feel un loved and un desirable. It leaves me with feelings of rejection and un loved. Its feels like she only loves me when things wife never wants sex going her way. She stays up all night playing on the computer just to avoid me and im out of things to try. I love her deeply but the lack of intimacy is making me feel further and further away from her. Im full of resentments and our relationship is weakening. Im afraid to talk to her about what the bible says as im afraid it will only anger her. But if something doesnt happen soon im afraid we will loose that special love we have always had for each other that makes marriage a joy. How should i talk to her about this without being offensive and making things worse. Share your heart with her just like you did here. Make sure you communicate with her in a gentle and loving way with complete humility. But the more she gets involved with her church the less she has intimate feelings for me. I think she is intentionally neglecting our sex life because she knows how much I really want her need her, but she just tells me I have developed a problem and need to see a Dr. This is extremely frustrating because she wants me to be the ideal husband in every other way except that. Women will lose the desire when they are experiencing these issues. Praying for your family God Bless and direct you to use wisdom. Im a reallly good husband that loves her so much and I try to do as much as I can. Thre is starting to be a big lack of respect for me and our marriage too, but if I mention it she thinks Im being stupid or a typical husband. Wow,really enlightening stuff,Wes and Done…. My wife or soon to be ex-wife is more or less the same…. I hate the fact that I do all the things that are meant to make a wife happy but all I get is constant rejection…. Before you say anything about me wife never wants sex downstairs…. So now I watch porn and masturbate,just so that i can be under the same roof as my kids…. I see no help insight as she seems happy with the status quo,but for me…. Only you can change your situation…. I am a young wife wife never wants sex 21 and my husband is 25. Unfortunately we were not celibate before we were married but enjoyed an active sex life before he went into the army when I was 19. Afterwards, his libido diminished greatly and to this day, I would gladly make love to my husband once or twice every day while he is satisfied with twice a week. Have you any advice for wives who have a higher sex drive than their husbands. It seems that every bit of advice out there is for wives with lower sex drives. What hurts the most is that when he does…it becomes all about him. Thank you so much for your advise and simple way of making things for me it truly does feel like if were to be speaking to my sister in God I truly do appreciate you ministry and I will pray for you and it Am a new follower of you work and it has change my life for the best I want to become more Christ-like not only for me but for the world around me, so they see me as a better more Godly person and you have sure taken me there Thank you so much once again May God Bless you always and may your ministry grow to help others as it has help me. Very very frustrating for a woman who has a good sex drive. Try to seek some form of intimacy with your man in spite of his physical condition. Jolene, Thank you so much for sharing your heart and being so vulnerable. Just found you from a friend on Facebook and subscribed. The reason is we have been 45+ years and my husband only had sex, intimacy, cuddling and love once in all them 45 years. He hated sex, me and all married life, I was disgusting to suggest that we have sex. We did on our wedding night and to him it was the last straw. The next day he moved to our basement where he eats, sleeps and does what ever he does. We have been married for 4 years and have 2 small boys. We have only had sex when I wanted to get pregnant. I can count on one hand how many times we have had sex otherwise. I would do it every day plus I take care of the house and kids. I also work full time and contribute as much as wife never wants sex does financially. We have tried counseling and he just provides excuses for his selfish behavior. I can take care of the 3 of us myself. I have been married 5 years this last July. April 2 years ago we decided to try for our first and we suffered a miscarriage in the second month. However, after the miscarriage it is non existent. We have been intimate once in over two years and she cried herself to sleep afterwards. Being scared she would get pregnant again. I of course felt terrible and vowed to not pressure her or try for intimacy until she was ready. I felt like I had raped my wife or made her do something. When I step back I understand her pain and feel compassion but there is certainly a level of bitterness in wife never wants sex heart. It has happened twice over the last 8 months. The 2nd started about 2 weeks ago when I started my new job. We are a male and female mirror images of each other. I do however wish to get rid of the thoughts. I thought it might make her think a little about what she might be able to do and I wanted to be open and up front. My wife and I had sex with each other almost every day before we got married. Right after we got married it stopped. I have never and will never seek sex outside our marriage. What has happened to me though is my desire for sex has dropped off dramatically. Treat her with respect and tenderness. Every trait that is listed for why it could be the guy is not there for a legitimate reason. Instead of praying and being passive about problems take charge. All these suggestions are awesome and speak to my masculinity in an almost instant healing sort of way…. Men are simple not dumb and I feel like a dummy more often then not by my wife. I so much agreed with you but when a woman suddenly dictating to are husband when she want to have sex what did you think the husband should do. My husband is hard working but he only has one loud tone. My brother said I dint even think he realizes how he talks to you and your girls. He complains frequently and marks his calendar the date and how long we make love. I get get frustrated because I am a busy mom, teacher and admin. We have been married for almost 29 yrs. Am down in completely in my marriage because as much as i try to keep my marriage alive, my husband still goes outside the marrige and have extra relationship that he could not hide and comes to my knowledge. I took care of her very very well and she has the nerve to ask me for money to go get her nails and her hair done to go out west for a Bob Segar concert with who knows who. Anyway needless to say Wife never wants sex told her I was not able to afford it and she ask me what do I do with my money and I told her pay the friggin bills you left me here with.

Also, part of leadership is going first. Pressure has never made my wife excited about anything. I am not sure where you got the idea that it makes wives respect more because you are a bully. What we ended up with was Hell on earth. I kind of like the spreadsheet idea who can argue with facts in black and white. We have a storied life with two great kids I make good money and I spend more time with the kids then her, I am a great dad. She still holding a grudge, because you have stated yourself her attentivnes to you did not last long.